The Illusion of Control
This past weekend was a big one at Cross & Crown. Not only did we have our annual Yard Sale,
which is our largest fundraiser for the year, but we also had our Youth Car
Wash. On top of all of that, it was
Youth Sunday, where the youth of our church plan worship for both of our
services at 8:15 and 10:45.
So much planning and hard work goes
into events. Anyone who has planned a
wedding or even a kid’s birthday party (especially these days) understands this
deeply. We can prepare for every
possible scenario and we can still be surprised. Weather can complicate plans, personal
conflicts can surface, and the list goes on.
But we quickly learn (or should learn) that control is an
illusion. Do not misunderstand me; I
don’t intend to diminish the importance of preparation. But we should always remind ourselves that
it’s not only us at work, but God is as work as well.
I have to admit, it was not easy to turn over the important
decisions involving worship to folks who weren’t even legally allowed to drive.
But one of the key goals of that
service is to trust them with the decisions so they feel ownership with the
service and have “skin” in the game. I
cannot tell you how many times I wanted to step in or intervene, but I had to
remind myself that it was THEIR service!
And wouldn’t you know it- they all showed up. Each kid had worked hard and it showed. It was clear God was working through them in
powerful ways. In fact, the service was
said to be one of the best youth services in years.
God is always at work.
I suppose it's part of the human condition to try to exert control in
our lives. And we try to control
everything, don’t we? Our relationships,
our work, other’s work, our families.
But the result is usually just unneeded worry, anxiety, and stress. When we “let go and let God” the results are
often far greater than we ever could have produced on our own.
So this week, when you find yourself slipping into “control
mode” take a deep breath, whisper a prayer, and give it to God. And enjoy the blessings that result.
Pastor Brook